Mischa Golebiewski | Interview

A New Era for Mischa G: Early Influences, Hair Futurisms and the Great Work of Believing in Oneself

“In this new era of Mischa being forty, if I wasn’t yellow, what would I be?” It’s on this open-ended question that we conclude our transatlantic tête-à-tête with sought-after hairstylist and sub pop culture icon Mischa G. Afternoon sun glazes her New York condo and signature yellow locks as she muses: “Back to my natural dirty blonde? A Britney-shaves-her-head meltdown with brown hair and light blonde highlights?” Then, after a brief pause: “I wouldn’t be Mischa.” An interview about roots, risk-taking, and the great work of believing in oneself amidst life’s surprises.

The four decades that have sculpted Mischa G’s unique approach to hairstyling are nothing short of fascinating. From early cinematic muses to rebellious teenage ventures and moving out of her parents’ home in Buffalo, NY at the tender age of fifteen, Mischa’s capricious path continues to defy convention. She draws beauty inspiration from the grotesque: Hollywood’s golden age allure, drag queens, and clowns—a legacy from her clown school-trained grandfather. Rather than trailing trends, Mischa G’s work is kindled by individuality and those with their own distinct styles.

As she reflects on turning forty, Mischa shares her evolving belief in herself and the transformative shifts in her career and personal life. After rejecting the confines of a potential future in medicine, her pivot towards hair artistry became a cornerstone of who Mischa G is today. In the midst of the global pandemic in 2020, she opened her own salon, Treehouse Social Club—another testament to how Mischa’s fearless dedication to self-expression is a driving force behind her creative success. Amidst these tales of audacity, Farrah Fawcett’s famous feathered coif makes an appearance, epitomizing Mischa’s mantra that “you need the right haircut to make a style work.” In her upcoming masterclass The Farrah with Grande Maison and as an educator, Mischa G encourages others to unleash their vision in hairstyling. She emphasizes that mastering the art is more than just technique: It’s an infusion of confidence, empathy and collaboration into every creation.

GM Who was the first artist to influence you?
MG I used to watch a lot of Marilyn Monroe movies with my aunt and grandma. And also John Waters movies when those started coming out, let’s say mid 90s. So I was 10 or 11 watching raunchy John Waters movies. A little bit of highbrow and a little bit of lowbrow!

GM What else did you do for fun as a teen?
MG Listen to Marilyn Manson and Korn and tattoo myself with needles and pen ink. My mom still tells the story of my bedroom in high school. I had one entire wall that I painted fairies on, and I stapled pictures everywhere. You know those little round see-through bingo coins? I glued those all over my ceiling fan and light. I dyed my hair in the basement and sewed my own clothes, like skirts with matching little head scarves. I legally divorced my parents when I was 15 and moved out. My mom said the people who came to redo my room had never seen anything like it. It took forever for the workers to pull all the staples out of the wall!

GM Do you believe in the American Dream?
MG Maybe back in the 50s and 60s, the American dream still existed. But now… More of the American Nightmare, I would say.

GM Do you believe in Mischa G?
MG I believe in myself because a lot of things have happened really amazingly in my life, and with minimal effort from my part. Good things often just keep happening, easily and wonderfully, all sparkles in my eyes. But right now in my life—I just turned 40 and these past two years things have gotten a bit harder. I feel like I have to believe in myself, force myself to allow these things to happen.

GM How do you do that, force yourself into believing in yourself?
MG I’m working on it (laughs). It’s not just turning 40, but the past few years there’s been this big shift in my career, and my personal and social life. I opened a salon right after COVID, then the next year got a divorce from my ex wife, moved into a new apartment by myself… My body doesn’t move the way it used to. It’s like a big reality check. So I’m working on finding a new way to believe in myself, instead of expecting things to just happen easily. I have to push myself more.

GM An opportunity to take agency.
MG Oh yeah! To do fucking awesome things. The whole getting older, body hurting in this job—it’s just a big ‘Okay, time to get serious.’ Or more serious—I’m not a serious person.

GM One of your early ambitions was to become a vet. In college, you were a biology major going pre-med, then switched to art history and French before secretly dropping out to start hair school in your final year. What sparked that switch from university to the art of hairdressing?
MG I started beauty school above an Applebee’s chain restaurant in a strip mall in the suburbs. It wasn’t a great school; I did little perm rod sets on little old ladies all day long, combed their hair up to a bubble. It was a financial decision and also about freedom. I didn’t want to be bound by pharmaceutical companies. In the States doctors make more money based on what kind of drugs they prescribe to their clients. That seems like the opposite of what a doctor should be. I was like: ‘This is stupid. I want to make people feel better. And I want to get hand tattoos.’

GM Your first tattoo?
MG I’m a Cancer so the 69 infinity symbol was my first tattoo. My first ‘real’ tattoo I got with a fake ID. The name on the ID was Vicki Love—V love. It’s on my shoulder, a person meditating. I have never meditated. Ever. (laughs)

GM And your latest?
MG When I opened my salon, my friend bought me a tattoo gun. My former assistant Clover gave me a heart on her second interview. She had never tattooed before and I said, ‘Oh, you want to work here? Tattoo me.’

GM Where do you get your ideas for hairstyles these days?
MG The youth and the women over 70 in New York. There’s this page on Instagram called Advanced Style. The clothing and hair and makeup—it’s just so cool. The guy who created it, Ari Cohen, was obsessed with his grandmother and he would photograph his beautiful uptown grandmother all the time. He eventually started photographing older men and women all across the country. Iris Apfel is one of them. When you’re young or over 70 you don’t give a fuck about anything. You do what you want to do.

GM The hottest styles you’ve spotted on the New York streets recently?
MG If I had to pick a few, I would say the chelsea mullet: little bangs and really long extensions in the back. And super strict bobs, I want those to come back! The shag is still everywhere. I have a lot of gals that I give a big curly 70s style disco shag.

GM Besides the strict bob, any upcoming trends you’d be excited to see more of?
MG Shorter pixies and pixie styles for women. And for men I want more of the 90s heartthrob, slit-in-the-middle Leonardo DiCaprio-style hair.

GM Speaking of trends—do you think hairstyling will ever get obsolete with robots like the 1980s flowbee machine, today’s hairdressing drones or new developments in AI?
MG Hairdressing drones?! At Target they have a machine that paints your nails. That
seems terrifying, to have this laser machine in charge of your hand. I couldn’t imagine having a machine in charge of my head. I don’t think it’ll become obsolete, unless people just stop producing hair and everyone wears wig helmets.

GM So what is the next level of hairstyling?
MG It’s all cyclical. I feel like the next level is going back to people ‘dressing’ their hair, versus a quick air-dried look. I’ve been using rollers more in the salon. A few of my clients even bring in older pictures of women with dressed hair. There’s ‘doing’ hair and then there’s ‘dressing’ it—like doing a full Farrah or Marilyn Monroe, or styling it in an updo that holds for a while.

GM What’s the difference between doing and dressing?
MG It’s about the process: all the finishing touches to create a beautiful shape like in the 50s, 60s and 70s, that’s hair ‘dressing’. Versus in the 80s and 90s (mimics the sound of hairspray), that’s ‘doing’ your hair. Dressing means making it more of an art and placing things exactly where you want them.

GM Your upcoming masterclass The Farrah is all about dressing. What techniques or tools do you think Farrah wil be using in the 2030s to achieve her desired look?
MG There’s that viral video of a girl blow drying her hair with a round brush, all forward, and then the hair goes into the perfect, almost Farrah look, just by shaking it. I feel like there’d be a tool that would just do it all in once, something that would make it even easier.

GM Would that be dressing or doing?
MG A little bit of both, because you’re dressing it in the beginning… I’m gonna think about that one!

GM What can participants of your class look forward to?
MG Different approaches to doing hair and looking at things a little bit differently. How to free-think on your own, given what you’ve watched me do. The way I teach is: you’re only as strong as everyone else in the room. So bringing on community and how to teach and learn from people in the day to day versus competing with them.

GM What are you looking forward to?
MG I haven’t been back to Europe since right before everything shut down, so I’m looking forward to being out of the United States. And teaching a class in Berlin on my own, because last time I taught with Sabrina Michals, who was actually my teacher. Building my confidence back up! Always before I teach or before I do an interview, I’m a wreck. But then, once I start doing it, it’s fine. I’m looking forward to kicking myself in the ass and getting inspired by the people I’m teaching and what I’m seeing.

GM Do you ever get impostor syndrome?
MG 100 to 110%. Especially at a certain level of your career and as an educator, if you say you don’t have impostor syndrome, I just think that’s bullshit. There’s a modesty and humbleness that comes through in your teaching when you have a mild form of imposter syndrome. Some people can get too much like the straight male hairdressers of the 90s: ‘I’m the best. Look at me!’ I think it’s cheesy.

GM Mad Max or Barbie?
MG Those are so very different. What era of Barbie? Haven’t finished the movie, but just from that I’m gonna say Mad Max.

GM The world’s greatest living artist?
MG Off the top of my head, an artist I really enjoy right now is a hairdresser: Charlie Le Mindu.

GM The Farrah: Mess or perfection?
MG Perfect mess!


Interview conducted for Grande Maison. Full text available here.

7MIND | 7 minutes to a calmer mind

From Berlin with Mindfulness. 7Mind expands minds every day—with great impact. The app invites people to engage in a meditation practice, helping them relax and sleep more soundly, while leading companies use 7Mind to boost the happiness and health of their employees.

7Mind offers 7-minute single meditations as well as courses, including certified prevention courses such as “Mindfulness-Based Stress Management”, “Resilience in Dealing with Stress” and “Progressive Muscle Relaxation,” which are covered by German public health insurance.

I supported 7Mind with translating their meditation content and marketing assets from German into English, including:

  • B2B & B2C meditation courses
  • 7Mind Magazine articles
  • 7Mind Newsletter

Sample: 7Mind Magazine articles

Sample: 7Mind Newsletter

[subject] Productivity: Shaping your working day

Hey there team member,

Does this situation sound familiar? You’re jumping from meeting to meeting, your inbox is overflowing and your to-do list just keeps getting longer? And yet, at the end of the day, you still feel like you haven’t made any progress. We reveal how mindfulness rituals can help you lower your stress levels and increase your productivity, so you can end your workday feeling fulfilled.

Magazine: 3 simple exercises for re-energizing and increasing productivity at work

Taking breaks in the form of mindfulness exercises helps you work more productively: they can improve memory and reduce stress. In this article, we show you three simple exercises you can do on the job to restore your energy and boost your productivity.

7Mind app: Before a meeting

Do you ever find yourself rushing from one meeting to the next and losing sight of the task at hand? Take a break with our ‘Before a Meeting’ meditation and realign your focus before your next meeting.

Sample: 7Mind Guided meditations

Team | Asking for help (from: B2B Meditations)

Intro

Asking someone at work for help or a favour can feel intimidating or embarrassing – maybe even impossible. That’s because we often think we have to manage everything on our own, and as a result: we hit dead ends. Trying to solve things on your own has its limitations and holds back the great power of working together; it separates rather than unites individual potential. People who learn to ask for things, on the other hand, automatically connect with others – and that is ultimately the basis for good teamwork. How about you try it out?

GONG

Start by finding a comfortable, upright seated posture and straighten your back and upper body as much as feels comfortable to you. Slightly tuck in your chin towards the neck so you can really align your spine. Relax your shoulders and neck, letting go of any tension there, and rest your arms along your sides, placing your hands gently on your thighs. 

Now, breathe in and out slowly a couple of times to find stillness, arriving in your body, and anchoring the mind in this present moment.

Breathe in – arriving…

Breathe out – finding stillness…

In – and out.

In – and out.

In – and out.

See if you can really become aware of your body, sitting right here, right now – and allow yourself to relax as much as possible.

Breathe in – being in the body… 

Breathe out – letting go…

In – and out.

In – and out.

In – and out.

Now think about how you connect with your co-workers, with all the people at work. See if you can recall any encounters where you told others what you needed from them and try to remember the way you usually express your wishes.

[. . .]

Balance | Motivation (from: B2B Meditations)

Intro

Being motivated at work is often thought of in terms of being committed, of performing well and getting our tasks done. Yet this kind of drive usually follows from an external necessity – and that is only one side of the coin. What is it that really moves you? What is the most important inner drive in your life? Finding an answer to such questions can release unimagined amounts of energy – both at work and in all other areas of your life. 

GONG

As always, settle into your meditation posture, finding a comfortable seat and lengthening your upper body… You can circle your shoulders and neck to loosen up a little if you like… Perhaps gently shake out your arms, wrists and hands, before letting them come to rest at your sides, with your hands relaxed on your thighs… 

Notice how your buttocks are supported by the floor or the chair, how your body finds support… and breathe in and out calmly. 

In – and out.

In – and out.

Now observe your body as a whole, perhaps swiftly scanning it from head to feet… 

(10 sec) 

Then start to follow your breathing, noticing how it creates space for your inner vitality, your aliveness…

Breathing in – being with the body…

Breathing out – noticing the space within you…

In – and out.

In – and out.

Let your attention follow your breathing…

On your inhale – see if you can feel the breath moving your lower abdomen…

And on your exhale – follow the warm air as it leaves your body again…

In – and out… (5 sec) 

Perhaps you can feel a growing sense of aliveness with each breath in, how you feel ever more present and in tune with yourself by simply following your breathing…

Breathing in aliveness…

Breathing out – being fully present with yourself…

In – and out…

Now explore what moves you – deep inside, in your innermost being. What is it that makes your heart beat faster? What gives you the feeling of being entirely connected to your inner aliveness, your intrinsic drive?… 

(10 sec) 

Breathe in and out calmly – and observe what comes up with curiosity.

[. . .]


Logo, photos and original texts: © 7Mind

GEIST (MEMORADO) | Brain & Mind

GEIST (former: Memorado) offers a leading brain training and mindfulness program with over 10 million members worldwide. Over the course of one year, I wrote weekly meditation exercises, audio stories and talks to help listeners all around the globe unwind and take a break from daily routines, improve their sleep, and live happier, healthier lives.

  • Science-backed talks on meditation, mindfulness and sleep
  • Guided meditations and meditation exercises
  • Relaxing bedtime stories

I unreservedly recommend Mirthe to anyone looking for a skilled, responsive and reliable writer who goes the extra mile to deliver high quality work.

— Jana Intan Brincker, Neuroscientist and Product Manager at Geist
GEIST Sample: Meditation

Creativity meditation 

(intro jingle)

Welcome to today’s session!

(3 sec pause)

We all feel stuck in a rut and uninspired from time to time. When this happens, it’s usually an energy-related problem. We direct too much energy into unhelpful thought patterns or other things that aren’t worth it, and have none left for our channels of creativity. 

(3 sec pause)

In this case, cultivating an open, non-judgmental mindset with this 10 minute meditation might help you out.

(3 sec pause)

Sometimes, the best way to find inspiration is to stop looking for it; that is the paradox of creativity. It’s the moments when we go “off track”, allowing our mind to freely roam and unravel, that we experience that stroke of brilliance we were hoping for and come up with a great idea. 

(3 sec pause)

It’s when we let go that things come to us. 

(4 sec pause)

So, please get yourself ready by finding a cozy spot in an environment where you feel at ease. 

(4 sec pause)

It doesn’t have to be completely silent, as long as you can find some peace there. 

(3 sec pause)

You can choose whatever position feels comfortable for you right now; just make sure you’re well-supported.

(4 sec pause)

Before you close your eyes, please take a moment to monitor your surroundings, especially noticing any blue objects in it…

(8 sec pause)

Good. Try to keep them in mind.

(3 sec pause)

Now take a few deep breaths, in through your nose, filling your lungs with air… 

(4 sec pause)

…and out through the mouth, exhaling completely.

(5 sec pause)

Let’s do that two more times… Breathing in fresh oxygen… 

(4 sec pause)

and out, letting go…

(5 sec pause)

And the last time, breathing in… 

(4 sec pause)

And on your next breath out, gently close your eyes.

(6 sec pause)

Now try to picture the objects in your surroundings that were red.

(6 sec pause)

How are you supposed to remember any of the red objects if you were consciously looking for blue ones before? Well, that’s the point exactly.

(3 sec pause)

As soon as we’re putting our energy into looking for something, it might very well happen that we close our eyes to everything other than the thing we expect to find. 

(4 sec pause)

This often results in our finding nothing; a creative idea or brilliant solution lies in the unexpected.

(5 sec pause)

We can set the optimal conditions for our creative practice, but “being creative” isn’t something we can control. 

(5 sec pause)

More than anything, creativity is a mindset. 

(5 sec pause)

It’s the art of being open to what is; observing, noticing, attending to our thoughts and surroundings without judgment, without analysis.  It’s unrestricted, un-opinionated attention. 

(6 sec pause)

Instead of a determined hunt for inspiration, it’s a joyful, flexible and relaxed kind of wandering of the mind.

(6 sec pause)

So let’s stop looking for anything in particular, and instead expand our thinking to all the available material. Let’s train the mind to be open. 

(5 sec pause)

This meditation is about noticing: bodily sensations, mood, emotions, memories, thoughts… as well as sensory phenomena like sights, sounds, smells and touch. 

(3 sec pause)

It’s also about letting go of restrictive thoughts, like how difficult it is to create or come up with a solution, or doubting your abilities. 

(3 sec pause)

There’s no need to get it “right”… forget the concept of perfection! Don’t judge, don’t expect, forget what you know. Just be open and notice what’s there, allowing whatever naturally arises to arise.

[. . .]

GEIST Sample: Story

The River Om

(sleep jingle)

Welcome! In this sleep session, you’ll board an old ferry that takes you over a broad river, whose ancient waters hold deep secrets. 

(4 sec pause)

While crossing from one bank to the other, listening to the river’s sounds, you’ll be able to clear your mind and let the calm flow of crystalline water guide you into a pure and pleasant state of deep inner peace.

(4 sec pause)

Before we begin, please make sure your surroundings are free from distractions, so you can fully enjoy this moment of calm. 

(6 sec pause)

Gently close your eyes… and allow yourself… to relax…

(6 sec pause)

Ease the tension from your muscles, and enjoy the weight of your body on the surface supporting you. 

(8 sec pause)

It’s okay to let go of the past hours and days, and of past feelings and experiences now. 

(4 sec pause)

The same goes for the future…

(4 sec pause)

Leave thoughts about bygone moments and thoughts about those yet to come for another time… 

(3 sec pause)

Now is the time to simply… breathe…

(4 sec pause)

Now is the time to rest. 

(10 sec pause)

(jungle sounds)

You’re in a lush jungle-like forest, where trees rise up high into the sky, and bird song fills the air. 

(5 sec pause)

It’s late in the morning, the sun has only just risen, and between the trees, shrouds of mist hang like giant cobwebs. 

(6 sec pause)

Different scents of fragrant flowers envelop you. It’s almost as if the thick, misty air has captured the forest’s sweetest scents, and is now offering them to you as a welcoming gift. 

(6 sec pause)

Grateful, you take a deep breath in… (breathe in audibly with listener for 2 secs then resume speech) …inviting the lovely fragrance of the blossoms into your nostrils, your throat, your lungs, chest, and belly…

(breathe out with listener for 2 secs then resume speech) …and out… 

Again, you inhale the sweet scents… (breathe in audibly with listener for 4 secs)

And exhale… (breathe out with listener for 4 secs then resume speech) …thanking the forest as you do.

(5 sec pause)

You start walking at a slow pace…

(add muffled footsteps) 

(5 sec pause)

…following smells of vanilla, but with an added citrusy note… 

(6 sec pause)

Then the scent of lilies, delicate, yet with a greater intensity than you’ve ever smelled them before.

(8 sec pause)

Now and again, you catch the scent of wood, and the sweet smell of raindrops… 

(8 sec pause)

…of ripe fruits that some of the trees are laden with…

(8 sec pause)

 and now, a hint of jasmine…

(6 sec pause)

and a peppery kind of lavender…

(6 sec pause)

You’re walking in no particular direction, simply following your senses and letting the forest’s exquisite perfumes act as your guide… 

(10 sec pause)

Every now and then, you halt to listen to a bird’s song, or to touch the velvety leaves of a flower… 

(fade melodious calls of a bird in and out)

(10 sec pause)

…and slowly, you wind your way along the rainforest’s natural pathways.

(15 sec pause)

After a long time of walking, you begin to notice that the light is changing.

(4 sec pause)

Through the thick canopy of leaves, thin rays of sun draw bright stripes in the humid air between the trees, and specks of light dance around your feet on the forest floor. 

(4 sec pause)

Low-hanging leaves covered in dewdrops glisten in the afternoon sun, and the forest begins to sparkle all around you. It’s a truly magnificent sight.

(10 sec pause)

You come to a halt, so that you can fully savor the enchanting scene: looking around and up, you watch the moving flecks of sunlight…

(4 sec pause)

….the soft beams that filter through the canopy of leaves…

(4 sec pause)

…the different shades of green under the shimmering dew…

(5 sec pause)

Then you close your eyes and smell, once more and even more intensely, the fresh and flowery forest scents surrounding you… 

(6 sec pause)

…and the fragrance of fruits, a smell so sweet that you can almost taste them… 

(6 sec pause)

You focus on your sense of touch, and feel how the thick humid air coats your skin, and how an almost unnoticeably soft sigh of wind draws warm air past your cheeks… 

(6 sec pause)

And you feel how the forest floor steadily presses against the soles of your feet, while you let yourself be carried away by these sensations… 

(6 sec pause)

Then, you listen…

(4 sec pause)

You listen to the sounds of birds and other animals… 

(5 sec pause)

…to the soft creaking of the trees… 

(6 sec pause)

…to the rustling of leaves high above, and dewdrops slipping from one leaf, and falling on another underneath… 

(6 sec pause)

and then you notice a different kind of sound, almost inaudibly mingling with that of leaves in the wind… 

(6 sec pause)

(add very soft, distant sound of flowing water to jungle sounds)

[. . .]

GEIST Sample: Talk

The proven benefits of meditation

(intro jingle)

Hi there! You’ve probably heard this before: meditation is good for you. It’s been proven to reduce stress and improve sleep, boost day-to-day performance and mood, and empower us to live healthier, happier lives.

(2 sec pause)

If you’d like to learn more about the astounding scientifically-proven benefits of meditation, then keep listening—especially if you could do with some extra motivation to begin or keep up your meditation practice.

(3 sec pause)

In this session, I’ll talk about 7 major topics: the way meditation reduces stress and improves sleep, how it boosts your performance, its effects on mood and happiness, how it promotes lifelong health as well as fulfilling relationships, and how it makes you not just smarter, but wiser too. I’ll even share with you the secret of staying young while living longer!

(3 sec pause)

So let’s get into the details. What is meditation good for?

(3 sec pause) 

(sound effect) 

Less stress.

(3 sec pause) 

In today’s busy and fast-paced society, a lot of people experience stress. It’s actually one of the most common reasons people try meditation. 

(3 sec pause) 

Stress isn’t just unpleasant: it’s bad for our mental and physical health, and a life full of stress is mostly a shorter life too.

(2 sec pause) 

The good news is that a huge body of research has demonstrated immediate and long-term positive effects of meditation on our stress levels. It’s almost like an antidote to the stress of modern life—so it’s really no wonder that meditation has become so popular these days.

(3 sec pause) 

One of the pleasant effects of meditation is that it helps us relax. Already in the 1970s, Dr. Herbert Benson, a Harvard physician, described what he called the “relaxation response” after studying people who meditate.

[. . .]


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